Tuesday, October 6, 2009
I love you
Do you think that "I love you" is what young teenagers should be saying? Every time I walk through a hallway or a public place all I hear coming out of teenagers mouths to one another is, I love you. To me" I love you" are the most three empowering strong words that can ever be said. Do you even no if you are in love with the person you say it to. Nine times out of ten your not. How many times have you told your boyfriend or girlfriend you love them? Chances are you tell them that everyday and every time you leave or see each other, right? Then, not more than a few months pass by and you break up. You realized after those few months that you developed feelings for each other. Is this right still to say "I love you?" I understand that you develop these feelings and yeah, you really might love them. The thing I do not understand is how young girls and boys are already dating and sleeping with each other at such a young age. Do children have parents? These kids are saying things unimaginable at ages that are not even old enough to drive yet. You no when you are with the right person and you have fell in love. Just think about the word love. Love just strikes you as you even say the word let alone give it away to so many different people. Teens are dating left and right break up go out break up go out. This to me is not a healthy way of living. Teens are already going through depression at such young ages that could possibly effect them in the long term. I think that teens should just wait until they are old enough to be in a serious relationship, to many are starting at such a young age. Also the matturatiy level is a very big influence on your emotions as well being so young and so vulnerable. Wait until you know that it's the right time. You will know when it happens, so just have fun and live your life.
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OMG!! you killed with this opinion thing!! i love the topic!! great perspective on the the three word vow!! i strongly agree!! alot of people dont get what they are saying when they say i love you. Or maybe they get what they are saying, but they just dont understand who they are saying it to. they dont understand that when they say i love you, its not like saying i like your shoes. when you vow that you love someone it should be everlasting, even when you want it to die. Very powerful rozanna!!
ReplyDeleteHeyI agree somewhat with what you are saying because there are really young kids that say I love you and have know idea what that means.But at the same time I think that there are alot of young people our age that can be in love now and i only say this because kids of our age go through so much stuff with there partner these days whether it be good bad which make their relationship much stronger and give them a bond that no one else can come between. But i do agree with some points in this topic..great choice!
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with you. People are not taking this type of thing seriously. I know for me and my boyfriend those words ment a lot to us and we did not say them until we were 100% sure they were true. We now have been dating for over 2 years and still mean them.
ReplyDeletei totall agree with you. I have always thought that when people say thaty they have no idea what they are doing. They will be dating for like 2 days and then are all like i am so in love with you bla bla bla and brake the next day. I do not think i have ever said that to a guy. I have a hard enough time saying it to my mom, so i know those are really strong words.
ReplyDeleteROZIE great blog! I totally agree with you. Incoming freshman at my high school would date for like a week ,and I would see on their facebook or myspace "I love you". How can you love someone after a week? Those words as you say are very strong and should be only used when meant.
ReplyDeleteRozana, Clearly you struck a nerve with this blog. Great topic.
ReplyDeleteYou've got lots of different topics here: saying "I love you," teenage dating habits, teenage sexuality...you might want to break them down into separate blogs in the upcoming weeks.